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Tom Myles
Jr.
Sep 25, 1952 — Sep 12, 2025
Surrounded by the care of Hospice, and the dedicated professionals at Silver Oaks Health and Rehabilitation Center in Camden, Arkansas, Tom Myles Jr. transitioned peacefully on September 12, 2025. A gentle spirit, a son, loving brother, uncle, cousin, and good friend, Tom Myles Jr. was born on September 25, 1952, in Hot Springs, Arkansas, was one of two children born to Tom Myles Sr. and Carrie Louise Reed Myles-Lumpkin. Born into a family that valued love, unity, and respect, Tom quickly distinguished himself with his easygoing charm and gentle disposition. Growing up with two older sisters Sandra "Kay" and Eloise, Tom knew from a young age the importance of familial bonds, a lesson he would carry with him throughout his life.
Tom's early education began at local elementary schools and Langston High School, each institution shaping his sense of self and his academic abilities. Tom's intelligence was apparent to everyone who knew him.
In 1970, Tom graduated as part of the second integrated class of Hot Springs High School. His time at Hot Springs High School was characterized by camaraderie and achievement, both academic and athletic. Tom's affable nature and sharp mind were matched by his talent on the basketball court, where he played varsity alongside his best friend Willie Porter.
Tom's educational journey did not end with high school. Along with childhood friends, he attended Arkansas Agricultural, Mechanical & Normal College, AM&N, now known as the University of Arkansas at Pine Bluff. Here, Tom was, as always, well liked among peers and instructors alike.
After his short college years, Tom returned to Hot Springs, ready to embark on the next chapter of his life. His work career was as varied as his interests. Tom pursued various occupations, each providing new opportunities to learn, grow, and contribute to his community. Among his many jobs, Oaklawn Race Track stood out as a particular favorite. The hustle and bustle of the race track, the excitement of competition, and the camaraderie among staff and patrons suited Tom perfectly. Wherever he worked, Tom's easygoing demeanor and gentle spirit endeared him to colleagues and customers, earning him respect and friends.
Beyond his love for basketball, Tom's interests extended into music. He was a singer, drawn to the soulful melodies of Blues and R&B—the "oldie but goodie" tunes that filled his heart with nostalgia and happiness. Whether singing alone or with friends and family, Tom found freedom and expression in music. His musical journey also included playing the trombone, an instrument he spoke of with pride.
At the center of Tom's life was family. His love for his sisters Kay and Eloise was profound and unwavering. The bond between the siblings was apparent to anyone who saw them together, their laughter and conversation reflecting years of shared experience and affection. In Tom's later years, each sister played a significant role in his caregiving, offering support and companionship through times of need.
Tom's extended family held a special place in his heart as well. He cherished gatherings with cousins, finding joy in the simple pleasures of togetherness, storytelling, and celebration. Tom's life, though not without its setbacks, was marked by resilience and the ability to make comebacks—a testament to his inner strength and the support of those who loved him.
Though Tom never had children of his own, his nieces and nephews Stefanie, Alicia, Eddie, and Earnie became his pillars of support, especially during his illness. Stefanie and Eddie stepped into the role of caregivers after the passing of Tom's beloved sister Eloise in 2019. Their devotion and compassion were sources of comfort and strength for Tom in his later years.
Tom was known for not really caring about fashion until he put on a suit for various occasions. Then with his suit and tie, he thought he was the sharpest man in the room. Making sure everyone saw what he was wearing.
Tom's relationships with his cousins, friends, and extended family were as meaningful as those with his immediate family. He enjoyed spending time at family and school reunions, sharing stories, and reminiscing about days gone by. The warmth of these connections sustained Tom during difficult times and brought him happiness and belonging.
Tom was preceded in death by his aforementioned parents, sisters, Eloise Adams, and Sandra "Kay" McKenzie, and cherished aunt Darlene Reed.
Tom's life will be remembered and cherished by his caregivers (niece and nephew) Rev. Eddie and Stefanie Harrow of Camden, AR, nephew, Earnie Bauknight of Hot Springs, AR, niece, Alicia McKenzie of Houston, TX; aunt, Helen Greene of Camden, AR; cousins; Phyllis Reed-Braggs, Larry, Michael, Deborah, Dennis, Karen and Charlotte of the Reed Family, Bobby and Carol of the Fields Family, Rodrick, Angela, and Eric of the Greene Family, and Adrienne Cobb-Conley, along with friends.
The Graveside Service will be held on September 20, 2025 11:00 AM at Crestview Cemetery 3077 East Grand Ave Hot Springs, AR 71901.
You may sign the guest registry at http://www.carriganmemorial.com
Arrangements are entrusted to Carrigan Memorial Funeral Services.
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